HOW TO: Make stepfamilies work
Posted May 15th 2012
Becoming part of a step-family is not something most children would choose, and tensions can arise. But with good communication, new families can succeed. By Suzie Hayman
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Becoming part of a step-family is not something most children would choose, and tensions can arise. But with good communication, new families can succeed. By Suzie Hayman
She says she loves you. You know she needs you. Yet you are on high alert in her company, waiting for the next outburst or put-down. The time you spend with her leaves you feeling apologetic, unworthy, unlovable or timid – and these beliefs pervade every area of your life. The effects of a difficult [...]
My daughter is 18 and is planning to go to university in October. I’m very proud of her but I’m already feeling anxious as, when she goes, I will be constantly worried about whether she’s safe and if she’ll be able to cope without me to look after her. I have always been fiercely protective [...]
My son and his wife have just announced that they are separating, and I am devastated. My daughter-in-law has a seven-year-old son from a previous relationship, and we love him as much as if he were our own grandchild – but with their divorce, I don’t know if we will see him any more. I [...]
After my daughter was born, I had severe post-natal depression and, although I am now fully recovered, I find it very difficult to think about the first few months of her life. My daughter is now two. My husband and I always talked about having more children, but I am so scared I won’t be [...]
Since my partner lost his job, our household finances have been very tight. My parents-in-law gave us quite a large sum of money so that we could get out of debt, but I feel as if they’ve used this as an opportunity to criticise me (we’ve never had a warm relationship). They’ve started to make [...]
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