HOW TO: Make stepfamilies work
Posted May 15th 2012
Becoming part of a step-family is not something most children would choose, and tensions can arise. But with good communication, new families can succeed. By Suzie Hayman
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Becoming part of a step-family is not something most children would choose, and tensions can arise. But with good communication, new families can succeed. By Suzie Hayman
She says she loves you. You know she needs you. Yet you are on high alert in her company, waiting for the next outburst or put-down. The time you spend with her leaves you feeling apologetic, unworthy, unlovable or timid – and these beliefs pervade every area of your life. The effects of a difficult [...]
As children you share games, laughter, fights and maybe even a bedroom with your siblings, but as adults you might be jealous of one another or keep out of each other’s way. What’s the solution?
I’m a 36-year-old man, and I still get extreme homesickness. It went away for a while, but now I’m married and have a young daughter, it’s become really bad. Whenever I have to go away without them, I get anxious pangs, and feel like crying if I think about home. Travel is an unavoidable part [...]
My mum and stepfather have been married for 15 years, and my relationship with him (never good) is getting worse. He has never been interested in me or my brother, and now, whenever we have to see him, he is surly and rude. If he visits my home, he criticises my cooking, my appearance, and [...]
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